6.17.2008

SATC the Movie - 我睇你好你睇我好的故事


都係嗰句 - 請給我一個不愛SATC的理由!

睇完首映唔夠喉,隔幾天又聯群結黨睇多次,二度入場的我企圖將電影的對白嗒得更真,把4條Q的容貌看得更清楚,因為覺得.. 今次一別,不知再邂逅是那天?!

大電影劇情接合season6之後的第4年,4姊妹繼續周身名牌在紐約過生活,各人在愛情上亦似乎找到落腳點,但.. 實情每個人都是我睇你好、你睇我好,人人有著不同煩惱。

Carrie Bradshaw - 愛情上跟Big第N次復合後風平浪靜纏綿了4年,事業上不但成為Vogue的writer,更發行了3部著作,表面看來實在完滿得令人牙癢癢。誰知Big突然提親,一直以為沒有選擇餘地的Carrie就彷如在黑暗盡頭看到曙光,心簡直要飛了。在籌備婚禮的過程中,一直都忽略了Big的感受,結果越搞越大龍鳳,最後由小型婚禮演變為全城大事,結果.. Big逃婚了。其中一幕當Big表態不想大搞婚禮時,Carrie大聲道:你唔鍾意又唔出聲?哈哈.. 現實有多少情侶也曾說過類似的說話?很明顯這是溝通的問題,Carrie一向都為自己著想居多,而這次收成正果嫁得出亦實在令她過度興奮,根本沒有站在Big那一邊去想。我認為一對戀人無論拍了拖多久也好,溝通都是最最最最最重要的一個環節,愛要講出口、不愛也要說出口喔!例如:女朋友會做很好味的芝士蛋糕,男朋友吃過一次說好吃,她以後就每次都送darling一個芝士蛋糕,直到一天男的吃到頂唔順出聲,女會說:你唔鍾意又唔出聲?男:我以為你知呀嘛!女:你唔講我又點知喎?男:咁咩都要我講你先知架咩?嗱嗱嗱,如果晨早雙方都開心見成溝通一下就咩事都無囉!不過假若你的伴侶是用士巴拿也撬不開口那一類的話,um.. 祝你好運好了!

Miranda Hobes - 身為律師的Miranda一向都強悍、剛烈、硬頸,永遠憑理智憑“facts”去做人處事。與Steve的婚姻原本是挺安穩的,但因久決性事而弄至老公出外偷食,雖只此一次但Miranda就“理智地”堅決一刀兩斷。經過半年的折騰、Steve不斷的sorry flowers/sorry cards,Miranda終於稍作讓步答允一同去諮詢專業意見。很喜歡那一幕M&S與婚姻輔導員的對話,M表示好懷疑S會否再偷食,一向處於下風的S竟然發爛說:我夠唔知你會唔會一路懲罰我落去啦,你話我唔守承諾(oath),咁你呢?承諾夠話要接受另一半,無論好與醜呀。老公犯過錯,心裡難免有條刺,陰影重重。如果心裡永遠有刺,就真難做到完全forgive!Forgive第一原則就是要completely兼absolutely放得低前事,file要永久deleted,否則每趟鬧交又會摷返對方的錯事來作武器,何苦呢?最後M與S決定在卜倫橋相會忘記前事,雖然老套但挺感動,尤其是那個近鏡close up十字緊扣然後拉大wide shot影著二人背影慢慢步遠的畫面..

Samantha Jones - SATC中我最喜愛Samantha的性格,敢做敢認,唔順氣就出聲,隨時粗口橫飛。一向以性及自己行先的Samantha,相信萬料不到會被一個Smith綁得住。心甘命抵除了真心喜歡之外還存有報恩成份,她想報答Smith在自己患癌期間的無限貼身支持。但可惜Samantha始終是Samantha,她又豈會自己呃自己,為一個男人去夾硬改變自己?我相信大家身邊應該不乏類似的情況出現,是你自己抑或你的朋友?為愛的人犧牲當然是件幸福到不得了的事,但必定要誠心付出,正所謂免強無幸福,愁著眉苦著臉去做,你的另一半也應該不會開心得到那裡。做人真的要學懂let go,尤其在感情上,所以我很佩服Samantha能在一段感情變酸變爛之前卸甲離場。正如Carrie在戲中所說,Samantha與Smith的故事並不是甚麼巨著,雖然是短篇但亦可歌可泣.. 這不就足夠了麼?

Charlotte York - 無嘢講,4個之中最幸福的一條Q,有老公錫有cute cute養女,最後連女都生埋,仲想點先!我想Charlotte的最大煩惱就是擔心其他姊妹及憂心自己幸福過龍,倒運會突然降臨囉。應該因為生活太完滿的關係,我有理由相信導演因此而留給Charlotte大量發脾氣位,好一句“I curse the day you were born”真是幾乎全場鼓掌。

係喎,大家睇完戲之後有沒有去喝杯cosmo以一解失落感?那晚看完電影我就跟幾位手帕交飛的到蘇毫喝cosmo,還點了一杯flirtini,好high好爽。酒過三巡各人更分享了近日的感情生活,但礙於太私人的關係,不便在這裡公開內容了,嘻嘻!

最後送大家一首未及收錄於OST的歌曲 (應該是在電影中第二首出現的歌曲)

14 comments:

Wordy said...

兜了一圈還是我。

應該不會看,但看了不少觀很感,你正好填補了我對劇情一項的空白。就當看故事吧:

溝通是雙向的,但同時也要有一點妥協(下刪 500 字)。在可以尊重的安全範圍內,也不用什麼都說。

一向對 miranda 的遭遇最有代入感。Steve 那段反擊說得很「中」。除非是十級盲目,既然曾經走在一起,對情人的為人多少有個底,懂得判斷那番道歉有多可信。對方走一步,自己也要下點功,凡事等價交換。

Fun said...

真的那麼決絕?

妥協絕對是要的,但勿超越黃線囉。人某程度上很喜歡自殘,尤其在感情上,為求爭取會不斷的妥協不斷的沉淪,直至唔知邊時邊日..

要一百巴仙forgive是十級難事,破鏡可會重圓?不過miranda跟steve的case實情有相確餘地,你問我,第一下就不應該離婚啦!

Wordy said...

未必進戲院看,將來不曉得 :)

幾十歲,經驗多少都好,應該知道黃線在哪兒。不妥協是一種探聽手段、攤牌訊號,懂了就要做。

捫心自問,我也不會完全 forgive,但談情就要有種付出精神。知道 miranda 最後冇事,好開心 ~

C said...

我地一行19個女人去睇, 之前食飯飲左6x杯cosmo. 從來未試過同咁多熟人一起睇戲, 好好玩呀!!

完全forgive係好難做到的. 我就係一個失敗例子, 結果亦係因為咁要分手, 唉!

Fun said...

to wordy,
其實.. 我諗無人係可以完全forgive架囉..

to c,
哇.. 未睇已經飲6杯?咪wing住入場?我地一行都有17人呀,霸左兩行!從失敗中學習囉,雖然老土到嘔但係千真萬確架~

Artman said...

你在carrie裡面提及的芝士蛋糕例子, 應該大部份情侶都經歷過, 我跟alan更在早年經常上演, 不過經過溝通+尊重, 這類爭執已成歷史...

CH Mak said...

Miranda 同 Steve 那段是最touch到我的。Not that I could identify with我以前的歷史。Only that it's heartbreaking to see how they both destroy themselves even though they seemed to have everything going for them... well, except sex.

The scene on Brooklyn Bridge was more corny than I could take, but still very sweet.

Forgiving somebody? In this case, I would side with Miranda. Dun ask me why, but... cheaters and liars suck... big time. But as with most things, there's always a way to straighten things out...

Fun said...

to artman,
可能我係天秤座所以咩都想/需要講出口,如果愛我既請話俾我知丫唔該..

to MM,
hv u.. ever lied le? what i think is.. everything happened for a reason and tho steve surely did sthg wrong, he is still a great guy no matter what, by all means, give him that chance lor~

Anonymous said...

oh, i missed all those "SATC" parties that we used to have in NYC. A whole bunch of us would get together and watch the show on HBO before we went out to the bars and search for that perfect man. Some did and some never, and that's life. To me, I have given up long time ago in having a relationship as I don't believe in that anymore. I was a Carrie and now I am a 100% Samantha....

Wordy said...

to Fun,
舊年 12 年可能有人話過你知架,不過你以為係「鬼」之麻,哈哈 ~

CH Mak said...

Yes, I agree about Steve and giving him the chance. But Miranda's initial reaction... is quite expected and understood... that she would still love him and willing to rebuild a trusting relationship is quite astonishing and admirable.

Of course I've lied before, and it hurts everybody who's involved... that's what I learned. But then, commenting on this is so much easier than real life.

Fun said...

to Anonymous,
i think we should never give up tho, always believe in god, believe in ourselves, we will never be denied. I know its tough but juz try?

to wordy,
唔係以為,係真係鬼黎架~~

to MM,
frm experience we learn to grow, frm growing, we learn to love and by giving love, we let every ppl experience life. (quote frm Miss Canada Universe 95)

Leo said...

quote frm Miss Canada Universe 95

:O :O :O

Anthony ng said...

i really like the scene when Charlotte yelled at Big when he got out of the wedding, she was really furiously,I never thought I saw her like that in the whole TV series